I find it fascinating that there are websites for men who are looking for the best means to attract women and some men truly understand that a rich, warm speaking voice is part of the attraction. I also find it fascinating that Voicing It! is being purchased by more men than women. I would never have expected that to be the case. Because we women are often so concerned with how we look, we tend to 'overlook' how the sound of our own voice effects others. Without voice training, most women do not have voices that are attractive. In truth, we have a tendency to sound like ill-tuned violins. On the other hand, men without training may not have great voices but at least theirs are deeper in pitch, more like that of the cello; and, I would sooner hear a poorly played cello than a poorly played violin!
So think about this ladies. If 37% of the image you project is the sound of your speaking voice (the one you hear on your answering machine, not the one you hear in your head!), and if men understand the value of a warm, rich-sounding voice, don't you think it's time that you placed some value on how you sound, not just how you look? We women often complain that men don't listen to us. Maybe, just maybe, they don't 'hear' us because they don't like bad violins! (Had I not changed my own voice those many years ago, I shudder to think what I would sound like today.) It's not what you say -- it's not even how you say it -- it's how you sound when you say it!
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